I will never have the mother/ daughter relationship that every person should experience.
Ditto, but I'm learning from my mother's mistakes. What happened with her and I will NOT happen with my daughter and me.
Not to be morbid, but you might want to inquire after her health. Your experience is very similar to my own, cutting off the grandkid, getting back in contact after three years, acting like we'd been talking all along. Except my mom did it because her cancer recurred.
Maybe your mother has just learned a little bit more about life and what's really important in the past nine years. One thing you do know for sure is that as much as you may have missed her, she probably missed you two or three times as much. How empty would you feel every day without one of your children?
Enjoy the zoo!